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Personal Brilliance

by Jim Canterucci

Every time you confront a barrier and find a way to remove it or go around it, you improve your problem-solving skills and strengthen your curiosity muscles.

Curiosity helps you clarify problems, ideas, and situations, and encourages you to explore different options.

Questioning takes you to deeper levels of knowing. When you develop curiosity, you improve the quality of your life by asking better questions and being receptive to new ideas. You learn more because you desire to know more.

Your brain rewards you for exploring fresh ideas. When you experience novelty, your brain produces more dopamine—a chemical that lifts your mood and increases your sense of wellbeing.

What stops you from being curious? There are some common curiosity barriers—fear of the unknown, entrenched beliefs, insecurity, apathy, and avoidance. Once you start to break through the barriers, you can quickly return to a state of child-like wonder. Every time you confront a barrier and find a way to remove it or go around it, you improve your problem-solving skills and strengthen your curiosity muscles.

So, rather than dreading the barriers, try to anticipate and deal with them. People who are curious are open to thousands of potentialities—and thus increase their power to find the best solutions.

When you put aside past judgments, you come up with innovative ideas. Thinking like a child opens doorways. Children believe that most everything is possible. Until someone convinces them otherwise, or until they become jaded through failures or disappointments, the world is a wide-open place filled with delightful possibilities.

To reconnect with that open sense of possibility is one of the most powerful benefits of heightening your curiosity.

Seven Suggestions

Here are sevens suggestions:

  1. Think like a child. Children are like reporters, constantly asking who, what, when, where, and particularly why. They also have few preconceived notions, so they are open to taking in new information without being constrained by biases and judgments.
  2. Look beyond the obvious. The obvious can mask information that may be vital to learning the truth of a situation. When you think “obviously,” make a note of your assumption. Then search until you find at least three pieces of information or sources that conflict with the “obvious.”
  3. Fire your inner critic. Remember that someone had every great idea in history. Why not you? Stop being so critical of yourself. Give your ideas time to develop. Respect your intuition. Let ideas percolate for a time before applying a critical eye.
  4. Vary your daily routine. Take different routes to work, or school, or the market. Use your curiosity to see how many ways you can get there from here.
  5. Identify the most impossible solutions. When faced with a challenge, try to identify the most absurd solutions possible. This can be fun and may unmask a solution.
  6. Work like a detective. Detectives follow all potential leads, often gathering lots of relevant information that turns out to be useless. Seek the one thread that leads you to a solution.
  7. Try new things. Take a class. Try a new mini-hobby. Taste a food that is new to you. See a movie or read a book on an unfamiliar topic.

The more you put yourself in learning and questioning mode, the more you develop curiosity as a habit.  PE

Jim Canterucci is the author of Personal Brilliance: Mastering the Everyday Habits that Create a Lifetime of Success; www.MyPersonalBrilliance.com.
 

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